Surfwise

NO MATTER how well you raise your children with love, tolerance and respect according to the most insightful spiritually , emotionally healthy and mentally strong IDEALS of the WORLD; they WILL ALWAYS HAVE SOME DEFICIENCY the can be directly linked to your philosophy; or lack of philosophies. The GOOD NEWS , you are not alone . It is only when we come up against our own flawed characters - HONESTLY, and without blame ; do we understand our loving parents did the best they could with WHAT THEY HAD. Recognize where and how you were a victim ; and swallow the pill that hurts , because it's all you get in the way of looking outside for the formula of solving how to not be so self obsessed (LIKE ALL OF US) . Because your clothes are different than mine; does not mean your laundry smells less. As adults; realize children watch you, real close; and if you have conflict with the rest of the world, and you don't get honest about who's to blame for your PRESENT conduct ;ironically your kids will too. CASE IN POINT. This is a video about what it means to be human ; it matters not how you color it . Some people have to pound on a couch for ten years; others, self honesty comes by waking up sooner.